Agreed that webmail is absolutely atrocious... particularly regarding speed. Another pet peeve of mine was highlighted with the "down for maintenance" end of the equation where a presumably planned outage was NOT communicated to customers but I've already gotten my answer to that in another discussion: "privileged information".
What utter contempt for the paying customer inherent in such a policy where there's presumably zero effort to provide any heads-up in order to save aggravation with people like Becky, who are most likely doing all they can to help us but are likely left in the dark themselves.
Cox policy has been formulated by people enjoying a market environment that insulates them from being accountable to customers in favor of dealing with whomever grants them exclusive access to an area. Until that can be changed we will be forever dealing with issues like this.