This is a traceroute to a popular DNS server but everything that I send a traceroute to shows the same first 4 hops and the latency happens before it even hits 10.4.40.1 which is private IP space. I did more digging and found the 98.166.152.1 IP and that also having latency which is still within the COX equipment and that IP was verified by a tech that came to my house not too long ago. These IPs show up in the analytics photos that I tagged and you can see when the closest device to my modem has issues then the whole chain does which makes sense because that is how a network works.
1 <1 ms <1 ms <1 ms 192.168.0.1
2 8 ms 7 ms 12 ms 10.4.40.1
3 8 ms 9 ms 9 ms 100.120.125.20
4 9 ms 10 ms 7 ms 100.120.124.52
5 17 ms 10 ms 11 ms 68.1.5.166
6 9 ms 9 ms 8 ms 172.69.160.2
7 9 ms 26 ms 10 ms one.one.one.one [1.1.1.1]